Vanilla sex — also known as sex that does not involve bondage, domination, sadism, or masochism — sometimes has a reputation for being, well, a bit boring. But you can absolutely be sexually adventurous and also vanilla. Below, we cover what vanilla sex is, what vanilla sex isn’t, and what to try if you think your vanilla sex life is boring. What Is Vanilla Sex? It’s easiest to talk about vanilla sex in terms of what it’s...
A lucky few of us have that one friend who’s absolutely in love with their butt plug and won’t shut up about it. But what about when you’re less certain? Why are butt plugs fun? Why should you try one? How do you use a butt plug for the first time anyway? Here’s why – and how – to get started with butt plugs. Why Are Butt Plugs Fun? The anus has its own collection of thousands...
Sex fantasies – we all have them! A scenario or kink that drives us wild! Being spanked, a partner entering you with a dildo, BDSM, or dressing up in costumes – when it comes to sexual fantasies, the options are as endless. Role-playing is a fun way to explore sexual fantasies. Taking on a new persona and creating erotic scenarios with your partner will improve your sex life in BIG ways. Role-playing pleasures our body and mind resulting in mind-blowing sex...
Without a doubt, we live in a privileged era. Our generation travels so much more than our parents' and grandparents' generation, thanks to the cheap airlines and accommodation solutions such as Airbnb. Individuals who work online and have strong travel buds take advantage of it and have made digital nomads a new trendy lifestyle. In a word, the travel industry was thriving robust from airline companies, travel agencies to all kinds of bloggers and online influencers, until covid hit hard...
The Big O, climax, cuming, ending, peaking, getting off - the list goes on. We have so many words for it, yet many of us are left wondering how to do it! Female orgasms sometimes seem mystical, don’t they? There are so many pleasure myths and misconceptions it can leave those who haven’t orgasmed feeling defeated or like something is wrong with them. Let me assure you - that is not the case! An analysis of 33 studies was published by Harvard...
Thanksgiving season is all about gifting your loved ones with the best gifts you can afford. For a couple in a sexual relationship, getting someone the perfect gift can be a bit challenging. One may want to surprise the other with something that will leave a permanent mark in their lives. As such, they may get the urge to give intimate gifts. Intimate gifts can go a long way to spice up a relationship and raise sexual attraction with each...
We are all used to seeing this sex scene in Hollywood movies or pornography; the women always seem to have orgasms like a breeze. Well, the reality is, most women don't reach orgasm so easily. According to Webmd.com, about 10% of women have never had an orgasm, either with a partner or just musterbation, and there is only 10% of women can climax easily. Most women are in the remaining 80%. Many women think they are not normal because they...
When I was young and a little naive, I used to possess a different mindset around sex and relationships. I wouldn't say I was a prude but my head was filled to the brim with so many sex myths and taboos. Some came from my family, who were all devout Christians (guess who's the black sheep?), but some of the most atrocious myths I've ever heard came from friends I've known during my early adulthood back when I was beginning...
Most of us in our generation have not experienced a pandemic that completely wreaked havoc on the world. There is no doubt that this covid pandemic changed many people's lives. It did the same upheaval to Emily. She went through the most challenging and poignant breakups in her life, lost and disheartened. Middle of March, all the countries in the world imposed emergency lockdown and travel ban worldwide. Uncertain yet hopeful about her future and the long-distance relationship that she...
Ask any woman you know what's the most embarrassing thing they've heard of or have experienced, and chances are you'd heard a few stories about girls being stopped at airports because they've brought their sex toys along. Girl, let me get this straight: there is nothing wrong with wanting your pleasure pals close by on vacation to the Bahamas, where the presence of beauteous creatures increases exponentially along with the possibility of having a daily orgasm. But there are a...
It is 5.30 pm, and I've officially clocked off from work. Working from home during this challenging pandemic time has been more exhausting and stressful for me. I discovered that my energy levels quickly depleted before the end of the day, no thanks to demanding clients and uncooperative colleagues. I must admit that I regularly masturbate to keep myself sane. Each time I attend a boring meeting that goes an hour overboard, or at the end of a tiring brainstorming...
I grew up in a small place in china, a rather remote and conservative town in the middle of nowhere. Despite not being religious, the culture there is relatively closed and reserved as how the stereotype goes for small towns. My parents themselves are not very open and expressive of feelings and love. I grew up being extremely anti-social, and of course, relationship education was never part of the family's conversation as if it was something unspeakably obscene. As a...
We are living in a world full of paradoxes. We, human beings, have successfully sent men to space. Yet, we are still very preliminary in the field of female sexuality; Modern society seems to embrace sex for pleasure slowly, yet for a long time, sex has been still deemed only a means for reproduction instead of joy. Female orgasm has been overlooked and far less celebrated than male orgasm. The peak or end of sex is often symbolized whenever a...
Normally around this time of the year, it is time to pack your suitcases and hop to some exotic tropical places on your bucket list. Unfortunately, this year, the pandemic makes it nearly impossible to travel with all the lockdowns and travel bans imposed on different countries. It becomes an extremely frustrating and daunting task to navigate where you can go and what you can do for a vacation, no matter if you are planning a romantic getaway with your...
How many of us right now, at this moment, are craving the touch and intimacy of a lover? Barred from intimacy due to travel restrictions, quarantine, or self-isolation, how many of us have truly found ways to cope during these unprecedented times when the pandemic is still raging on in a path of global destruction? How many couples have been drawn apart, with relationships faltering between "LDR is not working out for us" and "What's going to happen to...
The following is a dystopian “what if” narrative set in the year 2025. The year is 2025. It has been five years since COVID-19 enveloped the world in an avalanche of fear and death. But yes, I apologize for going all gloom and doom smack in the first line of this article. The good news is, the world hasn’t ended. As they say, life must go on and humanity has somehow found ways to adapt to a new norm after...
“Ssh,” Megan placed her finger on his luscious lips. It was even more delectable up close. “Don’t say a word before I am done with you.” Straddling Daniel, who was fully clothed but displaying naked lust in his eyes, Megan wasted no time diving into his pants and freeing his turgid cock. Daniel watched her as she stroked his tumescent member, gently at first, almost delicately, but as her fingers wrapped tighter around his cock and her strokes got faster,...
Megan braced herself for what Daniel’s big reveal. She had her fair share of stalkers in the past, but this was somehow… different. Amidst the quiet atmosphere of the Spanish restaurant, Daniel took a deep breath and began. “I knew how much you liked your collection of sex toys, and I liked that you weren’t shy about it,” he said. “In fact, as soon as I saw that we matched on Tinder, I took the plunge and got you something…”...
Megan heaved a huge sigh of relief as soon as she saw that the clock on the laptop read 6 pm. "About fucking time," she muttered under her breath. Shutting her laptop with a flourish, she stood up and stretched. It had been a long day at work for her. It didn't help that she was working from home due to the pandemic - the clients won't stop pinging her with their requests. Despite the hectic schedule, Megan did love...
Let's face it: Keeping the fires of passion within a marriage is hard work. Even the most loving couples argue sometimes. We've been there, and we know just how difficult it is to maintain a harmonious relationship, especially since many factors are involved. When it comes to sexual pleasure, many married couples choose to ignore issues surrounding this primal form of intimacy. "I'm not satisfied but it's okay because I love my spouse." "I caught my spouse masturbating without me...
Routine kills passion, and it affects everything; even love is no exception as it can not escape from this powerful spell. No matter how clicked you were when you first met each other, no matter how hot the honeymoon was, stress from work, daily frictions, and excessive responsibilities gradually take away the original mystery and novelty, undermining the relationship and intimacy. At the same time, there is a natural curse that is impossible to avoid. As our age increases, our...
People love sex. It's a biological need, and that's something we have to admit in ourselves. We crave for it from our loved ones, and sex makes our bondage deeper towards one another. No matter what we say, we cannot deny that we have to quench this physical and psychological need. One of the greatest philosophers Arthur Schopenhauer notes that the sexual impulse has the power to disrupt all of society, describing it as "the ultimate goal of almost all human effort"....
We all go through breakups in our life at some point, and it is never easy. One of the most disheartening things after the breakup is seeing your ex entering into a new relationship, especially when they choose to go back with their ex. That seems to be the most humiliating and unbearable feeling in the world because it sparks the inner fear that you are not good enough and triggers your toxic emotion of jealousy. For months, you find...
We, human beings, are social creatures. We all yearn for bonds and connections with someone else. One of these significant connections that people seek perpetually is love. We crave that specific interaction that would sometimes bring sparks to our life. People are obsessed with the idea of love, the idea of having someone who values you and cherishes you for life, and the idea of loving a person who loves you in a tantamount manner. This also explains why love...
What do you think of when it comes to sex toys, do you think it is kinky or dirty? What is your reaction when a good friend tells you that she uses a sex toy to give herself pleasure? What is your opinion about using sex toys when having sex with a partner? Sex toys remain taboo in our society, and for a long time, people feel embarrassed to talk about it and resistant to use them. Thankfully, in the...
When we think about museums, the first things that possibly come to our mind are places that hold every country's cultural and historical identity. Not all people are interested in checking these places out. Some might think they're just plain dull and that they're not cool. Looking at old things that aren't fun anymore is no longer an exciting hobby in the 21st century. However, there is something that people will always make an exception for. It is the topic...
The most important thing is that I suggest you to talk to her first about the vibrator. Then, if she feels okay with it, just give her a vibrator and let her experiment with it. If she likes it or any other sex toy of herself, she probably won't raise it with you, but if she does, she might not. So don't rule out buying a vibrator for your teenager.
It’s easy and fun to use sex toys as part of a well-rounded solo sex life. But what about when it comes to partnered sex? Using your favorites in front of and with a partner can be extremely hot and, if it’s your first time, seem like it could be extremely awkward. What do you even do together? What if your partner feels threatened? What if your partner doesn’t like your sex toys? What if they like them too much...
There’s nothing like the feeling of reaching for a brand-new sex toy right out of the box... or the feeling of reaching for a still-new sex toy that’s quickly becoming a favorite... or the feeling of reaching for a well-loved sex toy that’s exactly what you need! But nothing ruins the moment like settling in, reaching for the power button, and realizing it’s still covered in dried lube from the last time you used it. Regular cleaning, including disinfecting,...
The only way to get what you want in bed is to ask for it. But what if you don't even know what that is? Exploring with a sexual partner can be fun and revelatory, but it can also be intimidating or even embarrassing if you're ashamed of your desires. And it also depends on you knowing what you want to explore, when you might have only the vaguest idea. Enter porn. Porn, whether you're watching it, listening...
Vanilla sex — also known as sex that does not involve bondage, domination, sadism, or masochism — sometimes has a reputation for being, well, a bit boring. But you can absolutely be sexually adventurous and also vanilla. Below, we cover what vanilla sex is, what vanilla sex isn’t, and what to try if you think your vanilla sex life is boring. What Is Vanilla Sex? It’s easiest to talk about vanilla sex in terms of what it’s...
A lucky few of us have that one friend who’s absolutely in love with their butt plug and won’t shut up about it. But what about when you’re less certain? Why are butt plugs fun? Why should you try one? How do you use a butt plug for the first time anyway? Here’s why – and how – to get started with butt plugs. Why Are Butt Plugs Fun? The anus has its own collection of thousands...
Sex fantasies – we all have them! A scenario or kink that drives us wild! Being spanked, a partner entering you with a dildo, BDSM, or dressing up in costumes – when it comes to sexual fantasies, the options are as endless. Role-playing is a fun way to explore sexual fantasies. Taking on a new persona and creating erotic scenarios with your partner will improve your sex life in BIG ways. Role-playing pleasures our body and mind resulting in mind-blowing sex...
Without a doubt, we live in a privileged era. Our generation travels so much more than our parents' and grandparents' generation, thanks to the cheap airlines and accommodation solutions such as Airbnb. Individuals who work online and have strong travel buds take advantage of it and have made digital nomads a new trendy lifestyle. In a word, the travel industry was thriving robust from airline companies, travel agencies to all kinds of bloggers and online influencers, until covid hit hard...
The Big O, climax, cuming, ending, peaking, getting off - the list goes on. We have so many words for it, yet many of us are left wondering how to do it! Female orgasms sometimes seem mystical, don’t they? There are so many pleasure myths and misconceptions it can leave those who haven’t orgasmed feeling defeated or like something is wrong with them. Let me assure you - that is not the case! An analysis of 33 studies was published by Harvard...
Thanksgiving season is all about gifting your loved ones with the best gifts you can afford. For a couple in a sexual relationship, getting someone the perfect gift can be a bit challenging. One may want to surprise the other with something that will leave a permanent mark in their lives. As such, they may get the urge to give intimate gifts. Intimate gifts can go a long way to spice up a relationship and raise sexual attraction with each...
We are all used to seeing this sex scene in Hollywood movies or pornography; the women always seem to have orgasms like a breeze. Well, the reality is, most women don't reach orgasm so easily. According to Webmd.com, about 10% of women have never had an orgasm, either with a partner or just musterbation, and there is only 10% of women can climax easily. Most women are in the remaining 80%. Many women think they are not normal because they...
When I was young and a little naive, I used to possess a different mindset around sex and relationships. I wouldn't say I was a prude but my head was filled to the brim with so many sex myths and taboos. Some came from my family, who were all devout Christians (guess who's the black sheep?), but some of the most atrocious myths I've ever heard came from friends I've known during my early adulthood back when I was beginning...
Most of us in our generation have not experienced a pandemic that completely wreaked havoc on the world. There is no doubt that this covid pandemic changed many people's lives. It did the same upheaval to Emily. She went through the most challenging and poignant breakups in her life, lost and disheartened. Middle of March, all the countries in the world imposed emergency lockdown and travel ban worldwide. Uncertain yet hopeful about her future and the long-distance relationship that she...
Ask any woman you know what's the most embarrassing thing they've heard of or have experienced, and chances are you'd heard a few stories about girls being stopped at airports because they've brought their sex toys along. Girl, let me get this straight: there is nothing wrong with wanting your pleasure pals close by on vacation to the Bahamas, where the presence of beauteous creatures increases exponentially along with the possibility of having a daily orgasm. But there are a...
It is 5.30 pm, and I've officially clocked off from work. Working from home during this challenging pandemic time has been more exhausting and stressful for me. I discovered that my energy levels quickly depleted before the end of the day, no thanks to demanding clients and uncooperative colleagues. I must admit that I regularly masturbate to keep myself sane. Each time I attend a boring meeting that goes an hour overboard, or at the end of a tiring brainstorming...
I grew up in a small place in china, a rather remote and conservative town in the middle of nowhere. Despite not being religious, the culture there is relatively closed and reserved as how the stereotype goes for small towns. My parents themselves are not very open and expressive of feelings and love. I grew up being extremely anti-social, and of course, relationship education was never part of the family's conversation as if it was something unspeakably obscene. As a...
We are living in a world full of paradoxes. We, human beings, have successfully sent men to space. Yet, we are still very preliminary in the field of female sexuality; Modern society seems to embrace sex for pleasure slowly, yet for a long time, sex has been still deemed only a means for reproduction instead of joy. Female orgasm has been overlooked and far less celebrated than male orgasm. The peak or end of sex is often symbolized whenever a...
Normally around this time of the year, it is time to pack your suitcases and hop to some exotic tropical places on your bucket list. Unfortunately, this year, the pandemic makes it nearly impossible to travel with all the lockdowns and travel bans imposed on different countries. It becomes an extremely frustrating and daunting task to navigate where you can go and what you can do for a vacation, no matter if you are planning a romantic getaway with your...
How many of us right now, at this moment, are craving the touch and intimacy of a lover? Barred from intimacy due to travel restrictions, quarantine, or self-isolation, how many of us have truly found ways to cope during these unprecedented times when the pandemic is still raging on in a path of global destruction? How many couples have been drawn apart, with relationships faltering between "LDR is not working out for us" and "What's going to happen to...
The following is a dystopian “what if” narrative set in the year 2025. The year is 2025. It has been five years since COVID-19 enveloped the world in an avalanche of fear and death. But yes, I apologize for going all gloom and doom smack in the first line of this article. The good news is, the world hasn’t ended. As they say, life must go on and humanity has somehow found ways to adapt to a new norm after...
“Ssh,” Megan placed her finger on his luscious lips. It was even more delectable up close. “Don’t say a word before I am done with you.” Straddling Daniel, who was fully clothed but displaying naked lust in his eyes, Megan wasted no time diving into his pants and freeing his turgid cock. Daniel watched her as she stroked his tumescent member, gently at first, almost delicately, but as her fingers wrapped tighter around his cock and her strokes got faster,...
Megan braced herself for what Daniel’s big reveal. She had her fair share of stalkers in the past, but this was somehow… different. Amidst the quiet atmosphere of the Spanish restaurant, Daniel took a deep breath and began. “I knew how much you liked your collection of sex toys, and I liked that you weren’t shy about it,” he said. “In fact, as soon as I saw that we matched on Tinder, I took the plunge and got you something…”...
Megan heaved a huge sigh of relief as soon as she saw that the clock on the laptop read 6 pm. "About fucking time," she muttered under her breath. Shutting her laptop with a flourish, she stood up and stretched. It had been a long day at work for her. It didn't help that she was working from home due to the pandemic - the clients won't stop pinging her with their requests. Despite the hectic schedule, Megan did love...
Let's face it: Keeping the fires of passion within a marriage is hard work. Even the most loving couples argue sometimes. We've been there, and we know just how difficult it is to maintain a harmonious relationship, especially since many factors are involved. When it comes to sexual pleasure, many married couples choose to ignore issues surrounding this primal form of intimacy. "I'm not satisfied but it's okay because I love my spouse." "I caught my spouse masturbating without me...
Routine kills passion, and it affects everything; even love is no exception as it can not escape from this powerful spell. No matter how clicked you were when you first met each other, no matter how hot the honeymoon was, stress from work, daily frictions, and excessive responsibilities gradually take away the original mystery and novelty, undermining the relationship and intimacy. At the same time, there is a natural curse that is impossible to avoid. As our age increases, our...
People love sex. It's a biological need, and that's something we have to admit in ourselves. We crave for it from our loved ones, and sex makes our bondage deeper towards one another. No matter what we say, we cannot deny that we have to quench this physical and psychological need. One of the greatest philosophers Arthur Schopenhauer notes that the sexual impulse has the power to disrupt all of society, describing it as "the ultimate goal of almost all human effort"....
We all go through breakups in our life at some point, and it is never easy. One of the most disheartening things after the breakup is seeing your ex entering into a new relationship, especially when they choose to go back with their ex. That seems to be the most humiliating and unbearable feeling in the world because it sparks the inner fear that you are not good enough and triggers your toxic emotion of jealousy. For months, you find...
We, human beings, are social creatures. We all yearn for bonds and connections with someone else. One of these significant connections that people seek perpetually is love. We crave that specific interaction that would sometimes bring sparks to our life. People are obsessed with the idea of love, the idea of having someone who values you and cherishes you for life, and the idea of loving a person who loves you in a tantamount manner. This also explains why love...
What do you think of when it comes to sex toys, do you think it is kinky or dirty? What is your reaction when a good friend tells you that she uses a sex toy to give herself pleasure? What is your opinion about using sex toys when having sex with a partner? Sex toys remain taboo in our society, and for a long time, people feel embarrassed to talk about it and resistant to use them. Thankfully, in the...
When we think about museums, the first things that possibly come to our mind are places that hold every country's cultural and historical identity. Not all people are interested in checking these places out. Some might think they're just plain dull and that they're not cool. Looking at old things that aren't fun anymore is no longer an exciting hobby in the 21st century. However, there is something that people will always make an exception for. It is the topic...
The most important thing is that I suggest you to talk to her first about the vibrator. Then, if she feels okay with it, just give her a vibrator and let her experiment with it. If she likes it or any other sex toy of herself, she probably won't raise it with you, but if she does, she might not. So don't rule out buying a vibrator for your teenager.
It’s easy and fun to use sex toys as part of a well-rounded solo sex life. But what about when it comes to partnered sex? Using your favorites in front of and with a partner can be extremely hot and, if it’s your first time, seem like it could be extremely awkward. What do you even do together? What if your partner feels threatened? What if your partner doesn’t like your sex toys? What if they like them too much...
There’s nothing like the feeling of reaching for a brand-new sex toy right out of the box... or the feeling of reaching for a still-new sex toy that’s quickly becoming a favorite... or the feeling of reaching for a well-loved sex toy that’s exactly what you need! But nothing ruins the moment like settling in, reaching for the power button, and realizing it’s still covered in dried lube from the last time you used it. Regular cleaning, including disinfecting,...
The only way to get what you want in bed is to ask for it. But what if you don't even know what that is? Exploring with a sexual partner can be fun and revelatory, but it can also be intimidating or even embarrassing if you're ashamed of your desires. And it also depends on you knowing what you want to explore, when you might have only the vaguest idea. Enter porn. Porn, whether you're watching it, listening...
