Proper planning can completely change an experience. Of course, the element of surprise is always welcome because we need adrenaline and the feeling that we are not completely in control. However, most of the time, if we thoroughly prepare for something, we will most likely have an experience that exceeds our expectations.
Let's consider a scenario we all shared while in school. Let's suppose you have an exam the next day. If you study for the test, it goes smoothly, and you end up receiving a high grade. If you don't study for the test, it will seem like agony, and you'll be eager for it to be over and forgotten.
Sex is not like an exam. However, thorough preparation and documentation prior to a sexual experience are also essential from several perspectives. As a result, you know what is going to happen, what to expect, and what you need to do to make the experience enjoyable. Because, no, sex isn't always perfect. And, while spontaneity can make a moment seem truly special, planning ahead of time does not always mean that any element of surprise is removed from the equation.
For women, sex is always a moment to plan ahead of time. And, while we already know that hygiene is essential, there are other factors to consider when preparing your vagina for sex.
How to Always Be Ready for Sex
Before we get into the preparation of the vagina for sex, it's important to talk about the preparation of the mind for sex.
Because let's be honest, the magic of the moment can vanish in a few seconds if one of the partners starts looking around the house for the lubricant or the condoms, or if they simply want to get to work without paying at least a little attention to foreplay.
Here are some tips & tricks for your next sexual experiences.
Always ask for consent
Consent is absolutely required for any type of sexual experience. So, you must ensure that your partner is also open to the ideas you present. Consent is essential in all relationships, even long-term ones.
In other words, if your partner tells you that they aren't feeling well and don't want to have sex, you must respect their decision and avoid putting pressure on them. Sex must be a shared desire. Otherwise, this normally pleasurable activity can quickly deviate from its intended purpose.
Be prepared with lube and condoms
No one enjoys pausing their sensations to look for condoms, lubricants, or other items required for a complete experience.
When it comes to sex, it is always a good idea to have at least the necessities on hand. Always try to keep condoms and lubricant on the bedside table (if you usually have sex in the bedroom).
It is not advisable to give up on such accessories because the lubricant ensures a smooth sexual act, while condoms are the only contraceptive methods that protect against any sexually transmitted infection.
Foreplay is always important
Yes, we all want to take action and enjoy the sensations that roll through our bodies, to have an intense orgasm and get goosebumps just thinking about how good we felt.
However, in order to feel this kind of sexual pleasure, you must put the actual sex on hold and focus on the foreplay, which contributes significantly to entering a beneficial and open mental state in order to experience really strong sensations.
How to Prepare Vagina for Sex
Let's move on to the topic that has brought us all together in this safe space: how to prepare the vagina for sex.
The vagina is an erogenous, elastic area that must be prepared before use. Direct penetration without prior vaginal preparation can be painful and cause vaginal wall irritation.
As a result, the following actions are vital for guaranteeing that the sex is truly phenomenal.
Hygiene is the first step
As expected, hygiene is critical both before and after sex. To avoid any discomfort, make sure that the genital area is clean before engaging in any sexual activity.
Warm water and unscented soap should be used to thoroughly clean the vagina. It is also important to always wipe the area from back to front, rather than the other way around. This is a common error that can result even in urinary infections. A clean vagina is a great vagina!
Foreplay, foreplay, foreplay
As previously stated, the vagina is an elastic area that must be warmed before use. Besides that, foreplay is important for natural lubrication and prepares the vagina for penetration. You will know that the vagina is lubricated when you see a sticky white substance.
Foreplay can be performed manually, through oral sex, or sex toys for much more intense sensations. You should not be afraid to use vibrators, such as the OG Pro 2 or the OG Flow, during sex; they can enhance the experience more than you can imagine because their technology focuses on providing pleasure.
Add lubricant
Regardless of how much foreplay is performed, some vaginas do not lubricate sufficiently. Thus, in these cases, it is critical to use a lubricant to ensure that the experience runs smoothly and that there will be no painful intercourse.
The wetter the area, the greater the sexual pleasure.
Try a vaginal dilator
You can also use vaginal dilators for a more pleasurable sex encounter; however, this step is not absolutely necessary. These accessories serve the purpose of preparing the vaginal tissues and muscles to relax and expand during sex, promoting blood flow and suppleness to the area, and soothing the nerves connected to it.
In other words, you can prepare the vaginal muscles for sex with the help of dilators. Your pelvic floor muscles will thank you if you decide to follow this step.
Let yourself go wild
Yes, this step is not special for the vagina, but it can help you reach orgasm, the ultimate goal of any sexual act.
It is not necessary to plan everything from beginning to end, because, as we discussed at the outset of this article, it is always a good idea to leave room for the element of surprise.
When you create a to-do list and begin checking off each item on it, sex can become rather mechanical. Allow yourself to be carried away by the moment after making sure that at least the basic steps related to hygiene and safety during sex are met!
Wrapping Up!
When we talk about sex, we refer to a magical moment that, for the most part, doesn't require planning to be at its best. This does not, however, encourage you to engage in any kind of sexual activity right away. On the contrary, it's critical to make sure that certain hygienic and safety requirements are met.
Infections or wounds can result from an unprepared vagina for vaginal intercourse. And we can all agree that such events significantly diminish the wonder of the moment. Thus, do not miss the crucial stages involved in the preparation of the vagina if you want to make sure that you will have an absolutely wonderful experience.